Bhutia, Winkeyla2020-10-202020-10-202019-032348-6538https://ir.nbu.ac.in/handle/123456789/3568Statistics regarding the participation of the women at work in Sikkim has been encouraging. Factors like education, employment opportunities, reservation in employment, education and political bodies have combined to achieve this. However, the increase in work participation of women also calls for a reorganization of the various roles within the household. Based on my experience as a working woman in an urban setting, this paper attempts to throw light on the changes in the relations within the family in an urban Bhutia household vis-à-vis an earlier situation in a Bhutia family while also exploring the stresses and changes resulting changes in the larger social structure.enRoleseveryday lifesocial structuresworking womenemploymentpatriarchyArticle